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St. Pat's Bar & Grill NYC
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Sat, 12 October, 7:30 pm PST
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22 W 46th St, New York, NY 10036, United States
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Tickets from $29.90 USD
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Everything's Jake NYC Bar & Lounge
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Sat, 19 October, 5:00 pm PST
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54 E 13th St, New York, NY 10003, United States
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Tickets from $29.90 USD

Why Choose Speed Dating Social in New York?

Ah, Speed Dating Social in NY, the Big Apple – where love moves as fast as the city itself! If you’re not familiar, speed dating is like Tinder in real life, but without the endless swiping. Picture this: you’re in a room full of singles, chatting for a few minutes each before moving on to the next potential match. It’s like a game of romantic musical chairs, but instead of grabbing a seat, you’re trying to grab someone’s heart (or at least their phone number).

Now, let’s take a stroll down the bustling streets of Manhattan, where the city’s vibrant speed dating scene comes to life. The epicenter of these love-fueled encounters? None other than the infamous Restaurant Row on West 46th Street between 8th and 9th Avenues. This stretch is a smorgasbord of romantic possibilities, with venues like Haswell Green’s and Lily’s Bar & Lounge hosting regular speed dating events.

Getting there is a breeze – hop on the A, C, or E train to 42nd Street-Port Authority, then take a short walk north. Or, if you’re feeling adventurous, catch the M50 crosstown bus and get off at 8th Avenue. Trust me, it’s easier than navigating the drama of your last Hinge match.

How it works

Now, let’s talk logistics. Speed Dating Social events typically kick off with a mingle at 7pm sharp. You’ll have 12 mini-dates, each lasting 5 minutes, with a 10-minute intermission halfway through to catch your breath (and maybe apply some extra deodorant). The whole shebang wraps up at 9pm, leaving plenty of time for post-event drinks if you’ve hit it off with someone.

Here’s the cool part: you’ll use the Matching App 4.0 to scan in and select either ‘match’ or ‘friend’ for each person you meet. It’s like Tinder, but with actual human interaction! The men rotate every 5 minutes, ensuring everyone gets a fair shot at love. And the best part? You’ll wake up to your matches at 8am the next day, like Christmas morning for singles.

Your Host, Speed Dating Social

Speed Dating Social, founded by cupid-in-chief Darcy Todd back in 2020, has played matchmaker for over 37,423 singles across 787 events. They always ensure an equal ratio of men to women, so you’re guaranteed someone to chat with (unlike that ghost town of a dating app on your phone). Tickets are a steal at $29.90 for early birds, or $34.90 if you’re fashionably late to the party. And hey, no refunds within 30 days of an event – commitment is sexy, right? If you need to reach out, shoot an email to matches@speeddatingsocial.com.

  • Get 12 fun dates each night
  • Exclusive bookings at New Yorks best Bars
  • Enjoy 2 hours of fun one on one mini dates
  • Access to our online mating portal
  • Find out whenever someone likes you
  • Options to ‘Friend’ or ‘Match’
  • Receive your matches contact details
  • Run by friendly hosts 
  • Extra mingle time before and after each event
singles dating night at The Dead Rabbit NYC

Who You'll Meet

So, who might you meet at one of these love-fests? Picture a melting pot of NYC’s finest singles. You’ve got fresh-faced NYU students rubbing elbows with Wall Street hotshots, single parents swapping stories with silver foxes from the Upper East Side. The vibe is electric – a mix of nervous energy, hopeful glances, and the occasional cheesy pick-up line.

You might find yourself chatting with a Brooklyn hipster about the best artisanal coffee spots, or debating Broadway shows with a theater buff from Hell’s Kitchen. And don’t be surprised if you bump into singles from neighboring Jersey City or Long Island City – they’re always looking to spice up their love lives in the big city.

NYC’s speed dating scene is as diverse as the city itself. LGBTQ+ events at iconic spots like The Stonewall Inn are always a hit. For the faithful, Christian mingles at Calvary St. George’s Church offer a chance to find a God-fearing partner. Jewish singles can try their luck at events hosted by the Manhattan Jewish Experience. And for Asian and Indian singles, there are specialized nights that’ll make your parents proud (and maybe get them off your back about finding a nice boy/girl).

Single parents, we’ve got you covered too! Check out Mommy Nearest for reliable childcare options on event nights. And for that crucial second date, why not suggest the family-friendly Chelsea Piers? The kiddos can play while you get to know your potential new flame.

What to Say When Meeting Someone New

Now, onto the million-dollar question: what to talk about? Start local – ask about their favorite hidden gem in Central Park or their go-to slice at Joe’s Pizza. Mention you’ve been meaning to try that new SoulCycle on 23rd Street – who knows, you might find a workout buddy and a date in one fell swoop!

If you’re chatting with a dog lover, suggest a trip to the off-leash area in Riverside Park. For the spiritual types, ask if they’ve ever attended a service at the stunning St. Patrick’s Cathedral. The key is to keep it light, fun, and focused on shared interests that could lead to a second date.

What To Wear on Your Dates

Finally, let’s talk fashion. For a speed dating event in NYC, you want to strike that perfect balance between “I just threw this on” and “I’m here to impress.” Ladies, you can’t go wrong with a chic jumpsuit from Zara on 5th Avenue – comfortable enough for all that chair-hopping, but stylish enough to turn heads. Gents, a well-fitted button-down from Uniqlo in SoHo paired with dark jeans is always a winner.

Speed Dating for 20s to over 50s Love at Any Age

Alright, fellow New Yorkers, let’s dive into the wild world of blind dating events in the Big Apple! Whether you’re a fresh-faced NYU grad or a silver fox from the Upper East Side, there’s a speed dating event tailored just for you. Because let’s face it, finding love in this concrete jungle can be tougher than snagging a seat on the L train during rush hour.

Baby Boomers Over 50s Speed Dating

Let’s start with the over 50s scene. These speed dating events are like fine wine – they only get better with age. You’ll often find this distinguished crowd at elegant venues like The River Café in Brooklyn, with its breathtaking views of the Manhattan skyline. It’s the perfect backdrop for swapping stories about grandkids, second acts, and that time you saw Bowie at CBGB’s. The vibe is relaxed, the conversations are rich, and there’s zero pressure to pretend you know what TikTok is. For a follow-up date, why not suggest a matinee at the nearby St. Ann’s Warehouse? Nothing says romance like avant-garde theater and a shared box of Junior Mints.

over 50s speed dating event at The River Café in Brooklyn

Over 40s Los Angeles Dating Nights

Now, for the fabulous 40-somethings, we’re talking a whole different ballgame. Speed dating for the over 40s crowd often goes down at swanky spots like The Flatiron Room. It’s all about sophisticated fun – think less awkward small talk, more witty banter over whiskey flights. These events are a godsend for busy professionals who’ve outgrown the bar scene but aren’t quite ready for the “Netflix and actually chill” lifestyle. If you hit it off with someone, why not suggest a leisurely stroll through the nearby Madison Square Park? It’s the perfect spot to continue your conversation and maybe even share a Shake Shack burger (because let’s be real, no one’s counting calories on a promising first date).

Under 30s Singles Events

And finally, the young guns – our 20s and 30s crowd. Picture this: you’re at The Standard, East Village, surrounded by a sea of ambitious millennials and zillennials, all dressed to impress and armed with their best pickup lines. The air’s buzzing with nervous energy and the faint scent of overpriced craft cocktails. These events are perfect for those who’ve swiped their thumbs sore on Tinder but crave that face-to-face connection. Pro tip: suggest a follow-up date at the nearby Alphabet City Beer Co. – nothing breaks the ice like debating IPAs vs. stouts.

Our Most Popular Locations New York City

Brooklyn Speed Dating Nights for Hipsters and Hustlers

Tired of swiping through Bumble faster than you can down a craft IPA at Other Half Brewing? Hit up our Brooklyn speed dating nights instead! We’re talking face-to-face flirting from Williamsburg to Park Slope. Ditch those lame coffee dates for some real action on Bedford Avenue. Radegast Hall’s got that sexy biergarten vibe (way classier than your last Hinge match’s shared apartment), while Barcade is perfect for retro gamers looking for love. After you’ve charmed your way through a dozen five-minute convos, take your top pick for a romantic stroll across the Brooklyn Bridge. Or get artsy together at the Brooklyn Museum – nothing says “I dig you” like debating contemporary art installations, right?

Manhattan Meetups for the Concrete Jungle’s Finest

Listen up, Upper East Siders and downtown divas! Stop pretending Central Park is a valid date spot and join our Manhattan speed dating bash. We’re taking over the island with events at spots like The Dead Rabbit (where the cocktail menu is longer than your ex’s list of issues) and Sid Gold’s Request Room (karaoke classy enough to make awkward silences feel intentional). Ditch the endless swiping on The League and get ready for rapid-fire flirting IRL. If sparks fly, suggest a moonlit walk along the High Line (way more romantic than your 5th-floor walkup) or relive your youth with a spin on the SeaGlass Carousel. Who knows? You might find someone willing to share your secret dollar slice addiction.

over 40s speed dating event at Pocket Bar NYC in Manhattan

Queens Connection Nights for Culture Vultures

Astoria and Flushing folks, time to spice up your love life beyond that one bar in Long Island City! Our Queens speed dating nights are more diverse than the 7 train at rush hour. We’re talking mixers at Bohemian Hall & Beer Garden (perfect for pretending you know about Czech pilsners) and Bourbon Street (fancy enough to impress, casual enough to not seem desperate). Ditch the Tinder small talk for some real-life charm. If you hit it off, suggest a thrilling first date exploring the street art at Welling Court Mural Project. Or keep it chill with a stroll through Flushing Meadows Corona Park – nothing says romance like bonding over your mutual confusion about the Unisphere, right? It’s your chance to find love without having to brave the BQE!

The Bronx Bonding Bash for Uptown Romantics

Bronx bombers, put down that Yankees cap and pick up a cocktail at our speed dating nights! We’re taking over Arthur Avenue hotspots like Zero Otto Nove (because nothing says amore like authentic Italian) and Bronx Beer Hall (where you can bond over your mutual love of local brews). Riverdale and Pelham Bay peeps welcome – time to mingle outside your neighborhood! After the event, take your top match for a sunset stroll through the New York Botanical Garden. Way more romantic than swiping on OkCupid while actually sitting in Van Cortlandt Park, right? Or get wild together at the Bronx Zoo – nothing says “I’m adventurous” like pretending not to be terrified of the Congo Gorilla Forest on a first date. Who knows? You might find someone to share your secret City Island seafood spot with!

Staten Island Soirées for Ferry-Crossed Lovers

Staten Island singles, it’s time to emerge from your express bus bubbles and find love! Our speed dating events are hotter than a summer day at South Beach (the Staten Island one, obvs). We’re talking mixers at Flagship Brewing Company (practice your “What’s your favorite local beer?” pickup lines) and Violette’s Cellar (fancy enough to impress, casual enough to not seem desperate). North Shore and South Shore folks, you’re all invited – expand those dating circles beyond your local bagel shop! After the event, take your top match for a romantic ride on the Staten Island Ferry. Bond over your mutual love of Wu-Tang Clan or debate the best pizza spots on Hylan Boulevard. Who knows? You might find someone special to share those quirky Staten Island traditions with – or at least someone to help you navigate the mysteries of the SIR!

Inclusive Dating Events

Alright, fellow New Yorkers, let’s dive into the diverse world of speed dating in the Big Apple! Whether you’re looking for a bear, a babe, a believer, or someone who shares your love for bubble tea, we’ve got you covered.

Gay Speed Dating: Rainbow Connections at Stonewall

Let’s start with the gay scene. Gay speed dating in NYC is like a live-action Grindr, but with less ghosting and more actual conversation. Picture this: you’re at The Stonewall Inn, the birthplace of the LGBTQ+ rights movement, surrounded by a sea of well-groomed men ranging from twinks to silver foxes. The air’s buzzing with witty banter and the faint scent of cologne. It’s way better than endlessly scrolling through Scruff, trust me. After a night of rapid-fire flirting, why not suggest a romantic stroll through the nearby Christopher Street Pier? Nothing says “I’m interested” like debating which Chelsea gym has the hottest trainers while watching the sunset over the Hudson.

Lesbian Speed Dating: Sapphic Soirées at Henrietta Hudson

Now, for the ladies who love ladies, lesbian speed dating is where it’s at. Imagine walking into Henrietta Hudson, NYC’s longest-running lesbian bar, for a night of sapphic speed dating. The vibe is electric, with women from all walks of life ready to meet their potential dream girl. Forget about the endless back-and-forth on Her – here, you can actually gauge chemistry in person. After the event, why not continue the conversation over a game of pool at Cubbyhole? It’s the perfect way to show off your skills (or lack thereof) and maybe steal a flirty glance or two.

Christian Speed Dating: Finding Faith and Love at Calvary-St. George’s

For those seeking a God-fearing partner, Christian speed dating might be your salvation from the purgatory of dating apps like Christian Mingle. Picture this: you’re at Calvary-St. George’s Church, surrounded by fellow believers who are more interested in your thoughts on scripture than your star sign. The atmosphere is wholesome yet charged with potential – after all, even Adam needed his Eve. After the event, suggest a walk through the serene grounds of nearby Gramercy Park. It’s the perfect setting for a deep discussion about faith, love, and whether or not you both believe pineapple belongs on pizza.

Asian Speed Dating: Cultural Connections in Flushing’s Finest

Last but not least, let’s talk about Asian speed dating. Forget about the stereotypes you might find on East Meets East – at our events, you’ll meet a diverse group of Asian singles who are more than just their ethnicity. Picture yourself at Flushing’s New World Mall food court, speed dating over authentic xiaolongbao and bubble tea. The conversation flows as easily as the jasmine tea, touching on everything from your favorite K-dramas to your shared experiences growing up Asian in America. After the event, why not suggest a stroll through the vibrant streets of Flushing, maybe stopping by the Golden Shopping Mall for some more adventurous eats? It’s the perfect way to see if your palates are as compatible as your personalities.

How It Works

Book A Ticket

Simply book a ticket through our website or Eventbrite to secure your spot

Hosts Greet You

Turn up and be greeted by friendly hosts who help scan you into our matching portal

Get Your Own Table

Be assigned your own table where you can comfortably mingle one on one

Enjoy 12 Fun Mini Dates

Be rotated every 5 minutes and enjoy 12 fast 5minute dates

Tick Yes To Anyone On Your Phone

Anonymously tick yes on anyone you like from your phone

Matches Sent The Next Day

Receive your matches and contact details of everyone who selects you the next day

What Happens at Speed Dating?

Booking

So, you’ve finally decided to ditch the endless swiping on Tinder and give speed dating a shot. Smart move! First things first, hop onto Speed Dating Social’s website and browse their events. Pro tip: check out the age ranges and themes. You don’t want to end up at an “over 50s cat lovers” night if you’re a 25-year-old dog person (unless that’s your thing, no judgment here).

Once you’ve found your perfect match (event-wise, that is), snag that early bird ticket faster than a New Yorker grabs the last everything bagel at Ess-a-Bagel. It’s only $29.90, which is probably less than you’ve spent on those useless “boosts” on Bumble.

Arrival

Fast forward to event night. You’re standing outside The Standard, East Village, palms sweaty, knees weak, arms… well, you get the picture. Take a deep breath and remember: everyone else is just as nervous as you are. Plus, you look fabulous (because of course you do, you’re a New Yorker).

Pre event mingling

As you walk in, you’re handed a name tag and guided through the Matching App 4.0 setup. It’s easier to navigate than the MTA system, I promise. Then it’s mingling time! The air is thick with a potent cocktail of nerves, excitement, and probably someone’s overzealous cologne. Pro tip: hit the bar for a little liquid courage, but remember – you want to be charming, not sloppy.

The Main Event

Suddenly, it’s showtime! The men start rotating faster than the lineup at a Mets game. You’ve got 5 minutes to make an impression, so make ’em count! The conversation cards are there if you need them, but let’s be real – in New York, we’re never short on things to talk about. “So, what’s your stance on pineapple pizza?” is always a solid opener.

Before you know it, it’s intermission. Take a breather, reapply your lipstick (or check your hair, gents), and get ready for round two. By now, you’re a pro at this speed dating thing. You’re firing off witty one-liners like you’re auditioning for a spot on SNL.

As the night winds down, you can’t help but feel a rush. This beats swiping on apps any day of the week. There’s something magical about being in a room full of singles, all looking for that spark. It’s like the L train at rush hour, but everyone smells better and actually wants to talk to you.

The Next Day

The next morning, you wake up to your matches faster than a New York minute. It’s like Christmas morning, but instead of presents, you’re unwrapping potential soulmates (or at least, potential brunch dates). Now’s your chance to slide into those DMs smoother than a Brooklyn hipster’s fixie bike.

When reaching out, keep it casual but specific. “Hey, I really enjoyed our chat about the best slice in the city. Want to continue the debate over a pie at Joe’s Pizza this weekend?” is way better than a generic “sup?”.

Post Event Date Night Ideas In NYC

Romantic High Line Walk

First up, we’ve got the High Line. Picture this: you and your date, strolling hand-in-hand along an elevated park built on a former railroad track. The air is filled with the sweet scent of wildflowers and the faint aroma of artisanal food trucks. As you walk, you’ll catch glimpses of the Hudson River sparkling in the distance, while the city’s skyline provides a romantic backdrop. Pro tip: hit up the High Line at sunset for maximum swoon factor. The golden hour light makes everyone look like they’ve got a permanent Instagram filter. Plus, there’s plenty of cozy nooks where you can steal a kiss without feeling like you’re starring in a rom-com. Trust me, this beats swiping through Bumble any day of the week.

Brooklyn Botanic Garden

Next on our list is the Brooklyn Botanic Garden. If you’re looking to impress your match from that recent singles event, this is the place to do it. As you wander through the lush gardens, you’ll be surrounded by a symphony of colors and fragrances. The cherry blossoms in spring are particularly magical – it’s like stepping into a real-life anime scene. Listen to the gentle rustling of leaves and the soft chirping of birds as you get to know each other. Don’t forget to check out the bonsai museum – nothing says “I’m cultured and sensitive” like appreciating tiny trees together. And hey, if things go well, you might just find your relationship blossoming faster than the flowers around you. It’s the perfect spot for those seeking a long-term relationship rather than just another situationship.

New York Classic: Coney Island

Last but not least, we’ve got a true New York classic: Coney Island. This iconic spot is perfect for those who want to inject a little playfulness into their dating life. The sound of crashing waves, the screams from the Cyclone roller coaster, and the sizzle of Nathan’s Famous hot dogs create a sensory experience like no other. Challenge your date to a game of skeeball or take a romantic ride on the Wonder Wheel for some breathtaking views of the city. As the sun sets, the neon lights of Luna Park create a magical atmosphere that’s sure to spark some romance. And if you’re feeling brave, end the night with a moonlit dip in the ocean. Just remember, if you’re coming from a speed dating event, maybe skip the hot dogs until after that goodnight kiss.

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Success Stories 💑

Many have already found love

“I would like to let you know that last month,

I attended one of your speed dating nights in Hardware Lane and met the most beautiful girl. We connected and you sent our numbers to us.
We met up again the next day and have been on many dates and have spoken every day, for hours It’s been 6 weeks + and going strong.
Just wanted to let you know of one of your success stories. The future looks bright.
We recommend your speed dating nights to every single person we speak to. It was so much fun. Thank you.”

“I just wanted to let you know…

That I won’t been attending your next event. I had already purchased the ticket earlier… I attended the last event and had a wonderful time… after I worked up the courage to actually walk in…
I was so nervous and almost didn’t go in but I am really glad I did I have made a connection with a great guy and am looking forward to pursuing that and seeing how we go.

So thank you for all the effort in putting these events together… don’t worry about giving me a refund on the ticket, maybe you can give that to someone that rocks up on the night without a ticket as I know how hard They are to get. thanks so much again.”

“When I went to my first speed dating event, I had zero expectations

– less than zero actually.
But yup, when I walked into that bar, I saw him and went all nervous.
I wouldn’t say our first conversation was scintillating. I don’t even remember what small talk we made – maybe our jobs.
At the end of the event, I saw him sitting alone and asked whether I could sit next to him. He said he wanted to see me again and I said the same.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.
We are now happily and exclusively together. If I have any advice to give anyone, it would be to give speed dating a try. I was lucky to have found my person the first time around. But I had been online dating for a year with no success.

You may not find someone the first time or the 10th time, but at least these guys take the trouble to show up and put their best foot forward. They are making the effort which is more than I can say for some people on online dating sites – and that’s not even counting the sleazeballs.
– a happy attendee”

Frequently Asked Questions

Listen up, singles! Want to turn heads faster than a cabbie spotting a fare? Head over to Salon 94 on the Lower East Side. Ask for their “Big Apple Glow Up” package – trust me, you’ll walk out looking like you just stepped off a runway in Bryant Park. But remember, confidence is your best accessory. Rock that look like you own the Brooklyn Bridge!

Wanna bond over something other than your shared hatred of the L train? Check out the Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre for improv classes. Not only will you laugh your way into someone’s heart, but you’ll also have a killer second date idea. Nothing says “relationship goals” like making fools of yourselves together on stage!

Picture this: a melting pot of singles from all five boroughs, with a heavy sprinkle of folks from Jersey City and Hoboken thrown in for good measure. You’ll typically see around 50-60 attendees, giving you more options than a bodega’s sandwich menu. And with that tri-state area mix, your chances of finding a compatible match are higher than a penthouse in Midtown!

If you’re looking for love with an Asian flavor, you’ve gotta check out the events at Nom Wah Tea Parlor in Chinatown. Order their signature soup dumplings – they’re the perfect ice breaker! Trust me, it beats swiping endlessly on EastMeetEast. Here, you can actually see if your date knows how to use chopsticks without the help of a filter!

Hallelujah! Christian speed dating events often go down at Calvary-St. George’s Church. It’s way better than endlessly scrolling through Christian Mingle. You can chat about everything from your favorite Bible verse to where to find the best Sunday brunch. And if things go well, why not suggest attending a service together at Trinity Church? Nothing says “romantic pursuit” like a shared spiritual experience!

While there’s no strict dress code, aim for “effortlessly chic New Yorker” rather than “just rolled out of bed after a night at McSorley’s.” Think smart-casual – you want to look put together, but not like you’re trying too hard. Channel your inner Carrie Bradshaw (or Mr. Big, if that’s more your style).

Relax, it’s not the end of your love story! Even if you don’t find your soulmate, you’re still getting more social interaction than a year of swiping on Tinder. Plus, you’re honing your conversation skills faster than a New Yorker can hail a taxi. Keep at it – your perfect match might be at the next event!

Take a deep breath, champ! Everyone’s in the same boat, probably more jittery than a New Yorker on their sixth espresso. The hosts are there to make you feel as comfortable as a local in their favorite diner. Plus, the structured format means you don’t have to worry about awkward silences longer than the wait for the 6 train during rush hour.

Absolutely! Bringing a friend is like having a safety net at Trapeze School New York. Just remember to sign up individually – you’ll be rotating faster than the lineup at a Yankees game!

You’ll get your match results faster than a New York minute – by 8am the next day, to be exact. It’s quicker than getting a reservation at Rao’s!

You bet! Attend as many events as you like. It’s like trying every pizza joint in the city – each one offers a unique flavor!

Like finding a rent-controlled apartment in Manhattan, refunds are non-existent. But if you give them a heads up at least 7 days before via matches@speeddatingsocial.com, they might let you transfer your ticket to another event. It’s more flexible than a Yogi in Central Park!